Love is inexistent. Short straight and to the point. Do you disagree? Have you ever had those feelings where your heart races when that special someone smiles in your face, or spends a nice evening with you? Those feelings are sent from the brain through your body. This is "love." Merely a synthetic, imaginary "emotion" created by the naive souls of society in order to have an excuse to be around someone for long periods of time. By now you're probably thinking that I'm a bitter beast with a shitty love life; half right. I have very little belief in such an emotion. I mean, it used to thrive, but its dying. Dying quickly. And the murderer is walking amongst the earth.
I digress. Why do we believe in love and all that comes along with it? i.e. happiness, joy, yadda yadda. Well, have you ever wondered why love includes doing anything for the person you love? Not just giving them 5 bucks for lunch or frequent rides to the movies, or where ever you may go, but dying. Would you die for that person? Would you be willing to throw away your life in order to protect theirs? Love requires sacrifice. WOULD YOU MAKE THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE? Why? For that person? No seriously why? What makes their life so precious to you that you would be willing to do such a thing?
The will power to accept someone for who they are. Can one truly accept the one they love for who they are? Habits rise and fall like a sine or cosine graph (nerdy math joke, if you don't get it...don't dis the joke or those of us who understand), as do relationships in general. For example, if you pay close attention to Disney movies and their lack of realism, you notice that women fall for monsters, poor people, random necrophiliacs who kiss dead bodies, mice that walk around topless, and ducks that walk around w/o pants. In Order: Beastiality, Dating out of your league, Necrophilia, Inappropriate dress codes.What doest hat have to do with love? Well as you can see these people fell in love under all of those conditions. Could you do the same?
On to compatibility. Now, there are people in this world who have their exact opposite, their perfect match. How many of you know who that could potentially be? (rhetorical question) Marriage is no excuse to say that a person is your perfect match. I attack marriage because that, too, is dying. But was it ever really alive? Marriages that last until the very end is "love." However, marriages that last until the kids go to college and you can stop paying child support is not. There is always the sly situation of an angry married couple who stay together regardless of their happiness. I believe to say that in today's age, the only true happiness is through a pre-nup. Also, lying is a short cut to compatibility.
Success in Love? There is no success in love only tolerance. If you can tolerate that person you "love" for extended periods of time without slicing their head off and chucking it across a corn field, you are set for life. Once again, do not misunderstand me. I admit that i conform to the naivety of the masses and allow my mind to release these mental impulses throughout my body, however, until now I haven't questioned them.
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