Love is inexistent. Short straight and to the point. Do you disagree? Have you ever had those feelings where your heart races when that special someone smiles in your face, or spends a nice evening with you? Those feelings are sent from the brain through your body. This is "love." Merely a synthetic, imaginary "emotion" created by the naive souls of society in order to have an excuse to be around someone for long periods of time. By now you're probably thinking that I'm a bitter beast with a shitty love life; half right. I have very little belief in such an emotion. I mean, it used to thrive, but its dying. Dying quickly. And the murderer is walking amongst the earth.
I digress. Why do we believe in love and all that comes along with it? i.e. happiness, joy, yadda yadda. Well, have you ever wondered why love includes doing anything for the person you love? Not just giving them 5 bucks for lunch or frequent rides to the movies, or where ever you may go, but dying. Would you die for that person? Would you be willing to throw away your life in order to protect theirs? Love requires sacrifice. WOULD YOU MAKE THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE? Why? For that person? No seriously why? What makes their life so precious to you that you would be willing to do such a thing?
The will power to accept someone for who they are. Can one truly accept the one they love for who they are? Habits rise and fall like a sine or cosine graph (nerdy math joke, if you don't get it...don't dis the joke or those of us who understand), as do relationships in general. For example, if you pay close attention to Disney movies and their lack of realism, you notice that women fall for monsters, poor people, random necrophiliacs who kiss dead bodies, mice that walk around topless, and ducks that walk around w/o pants. In Order: Beastiality, Dating out of your league, Necrophilia, Inappropriate dress codes.What doest hat have to do with love? Well as you can see these people fell in love under all of those conditions. Could you do the same?
On to compatibility. Now, there are people in this world who have their exact opposite, their perfect match. How many of you know who that could potentially be? (rhetorical question) Marriage is no excuse to say that a person is your perfect match. I attack marriage because that, too, is dying. But was it ever really alive? Marriages that last until the very end is "love." However, marriages that last until the kids go to college and you can stop paying child support is not. There is always the sly situation of an angry married couple who stay together regardless of their happiness. I believe to say that in today's age, the only true happiness is through a pre-nup. Also, lying is a short cut to compatibility.
Success in Love? There is no success in love only tolerance. If you can tolerate that person you "love" for extended periods of time without slicing their head off and chucking it across a corn field, you are set for life. Once again, do not misunderstand me. I admit that i conform to the naivety of the masses and allow my mind to release these mental impulses throughout my body, however, until now I haven't questioned them.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Interesting--Lets recap, shall we?
Well, I was on Facebook the other day, surfing games and quizzes as usual, when I came across the "What Is Your Inner Animal" quiz. I thought it would be interesting to take such a quiz. Thus, I commenced to do so. As I was taking the quiz it asked alot about how I view myself in reference to the choices and questions behind them. As I was taking the test, I imagined it would give me one of the typical results like a lion, a tiger, a bear (oh my!), or a maybe even a wolf. However, to my surprise that definitely is not the result that I recieved from this test. To my surprise it was a very in depth analysis of my personality(although lacking in accuracy on a couple of points). Apparently my inner animal is the Water Dragon (a small green lizard). Once my animal was specified it was broken down into Personality, Wish, Friends, Color, Stones, Hobbies, and Quotes that would relate to this digi-spiritual taxonomy.
Personality: You’re a majestic person who prefers being alone than with people. You don’t really care about those around you, but if you see someone hurt you won’t just leave them there. The reasons you like being alone is because people don’t understand you and your way of living. You're different and some people have made fun of you for it.
Wish: Your wish is to find that one person who you know is out there, that will understand you and who will accept the fact that your different.
Friends: You don’t have friends, if you do they're usually people who have just come and gone. You have made a few enemies here and there, but nothing to bad. You go from people to people, yet your still looking for that perfect someone
Color: You like glassy colors. Like water blue and leaf green.
Stone: Aquamarine.
Hobbies: You should take walks or go swimming. Things that make you get out of the house and meet people. I know it’s hard finding the right people to talk to, but one day you’ll find the right person.
Quote:
“I’d much rather be hated for who I am, then loved for who I’m not.” –Quote I read somewhere.
"True beauty shines from the soul and warms the world with its kindness, compassion, and integrity." –Another found quote
Response:
Personality: I do believe that the personality is correct. Although one has expressed belief that no one is different. When, actually, we are all different in specific ways. However in a general sense (in reference to human nature) we are all, indeed, the same. (excuse my tangent)
Wish: completely and totally accurate. I mean who doesn't wish that? Well nevermind, some people just want to find someone to make them happy *shrug* People tend to settle for happiness when they hardly know the person they're with. Divorce thy name is humble and damnable.
Friends: I definitely have friends. I'm simply just picky about people and who will be dubbed a "best friend." I have a few best friends but I also have those people who are just friends. I also have those who are attempting to work their way up a hierarchy that I have established. A bit fascist, but whatever.
Colors: I do enjoy water blue and leaf green. They certainly are two of my favorite colors (always have been). However, I do enjoy darker colors as well, equally if you choose to believe so.
Stone: Really? Wtf?
Hobbies: So, erm; Suggesting what hobbies I should indulge is NOT what this little tid bit of information should be doing. I do enjoy swimming and a nightly stroll, if the evening entices me to do so.
Quotes: I like the first one, the second one was note me at all.
Personality: You’re a majestic person who prefers being alone than with people. You don’t really care about those around you, but if you see someone hurt you won’t just leave them there. The reasons you like being alone is because people don’t understand you and your way of living. You're different and some people have made fun of you for it.
Wish: Your wish is to find that one person who you know is out there, that will understand you and who will accept the fact that your different.
Friends: You don’t have friends, if you do they're usually people who have just come and gone. You have made a few enemies here and there, but nothing to bad. You go from people to people, yet your still looking for that perfect someone
Color: You like glassy colors. Like water blue and leaf green.
Stone: Aquamarine.
Hobbies: You should take walks or go swimming. Things that make you get out of the house and meet people. I know it’s hard finding the right people to talk to, but one day you’ll find the right person.
Quote:
“I’d much rather be hated for who I am, then loved for who I’m not.” –Quote I read somewhere.
"True beauty shines from the soul and warms the world with its kindness, compassion, and integrity." –Another found quote
Response:
Personality: I do believe that the personality is correct. Although one has expressed belief that no one is different. When, actually, we are all different in specific ways. However in a general sense (in reference to human nature) we are all, indeed, the same. (excuse my tangent)
Wish: completely and totally accurate. I mean who doesn't wish that? Well nevermind, some people just want to find someone to make them happy *shrug* People tend to settle for happiness when they hardly know the person they're with. Divorce thy name is humble and damnable.
Friends: I definitely have friends. I'm simply just picky about people and who will be dubbed a "best friend." I have a few best friends but I also have those people who are just friends. I also have those who are attempting to work their way up a hierarchy that I have established. A bit fascist, but whatever.
Colors: I do enjoy water blue and leaf green. They certainly are two of my favorite colors (always have been). However, I do enjoy darker colors as well, equally if you choose to believe so.
Stone: Really? Wtf?
Hobbies: So, erm; Suggesting what hobbies I should indulge is NOT what this little tid bit of information should be doing. I do enjoy swimming and a nightly stroll, if the evening entices me to do so.
Quotes: I like the first one, the second one was note me at all.
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